A few of my friends had been swinging for the past year. They all seem

Published Monday, 17th Aug 07:18 BST

A few of my friends had been swinging for the past year. They all seemed to derive a lot of pleasure from it. I had yet to be convinced. I mean I didn't want my girlfriend to be exposed to that lifestyle.There was something very lovable about the way she was now. We had known each other since we were kids and I didn't want to risk anything. I really had no complaints, she was perfect the way she was.We were quite a private couple but we would kiss and hold hands in public.

We had gotten used to showing affection for one another over time.So while the swinging lifestyle was tempting, it could never happen. My best friend Paul, was my idol in many respects. He was the oldest and he was the one who gave us all good advice. He told me straight that I would be crazy to get involved.

Swinging, he said, is great but some things are best left to the imagination. You can fantasize something perfect, but when you have something real that is already perfect, why risk throwing it all away?He was a swinger himself, in fact he was the one that invited my friends and got them involved in it. It was different for them though because they played the field more and I got the impression that they wouldn't last.

That was just how I felt about them. We had gone places together and sometimes you can get a feeling for people. So it worked for them, and they enjoyed it but for me it would be a terrible idea.That again is not to say I wasn't tempted. The idea turned me on. Of course it did, I'm only human, but I knew that what I had was special anyway.Me and Kate were both twenty either years old and it had been an incredible childhood romance.

She had lived in the house next door to us with her father. So we got to see each other a lot and it just felt natural for the two of us.We were planning to get married within the next two years. We hadn't set a date but we were both ready for the commitment. I never mentioned anything to her, not even as a joke fearing that she might been keen.

I knew it was silly and that she loved me. I knew that swinging doesn't tempt everyone but it did tempt me. I guess I just wanted to forget it as best I could.

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